Nanny interview questions and how to answer them

A nanny interview is a parent deciding whether they can leave their child with you and stop worrying for the day. They'll ask about your experience, but they're really listening for judgment, calm and honesty. Your job is to make them picture you handling a normal Tuesday and a bad one.

11 questions6 minute read

Part 1

1.Tell us about the families you've worked for.

Why they ask

They want the shape of your experience and a feel for how you speak about past employers, since you'll speak about them the same way someday.

How to answer

  • Name each role by the kids' ages and the setup, like a nanny share or after-school care
  • Say what you owned day to day: meals, naps, school runs, activities
  • Give the reason each role ended, kept simple and neutral
  • Speak warmly about the kids and respectfully about the parents

2.How do you handle a toddler's tantrum?

Why they ask

Tantrums happen every week. They want to hear that you stay calm and that your approach won't clash with theirs.

How to answer

  • Start with safety: move the child or the hazard if needed
  • Stay calm and name the feeling in simple words
  • Hold the limit without bribing or giving in
  • Ask how they handle it at home so you stay consistent

3.What's your approach to discipline?

Why they ask

This is where nanny and parent values collide most. They're checking for anything harsh and for flexibility.

How to answer

  • Describe clear, predictable limits and natural consequences
  • Say you never use physical punishment or shaming
  • Give a concrete example with an older child, like screen time
  • Say you'll follow their rules and flag anything you disagree with privately
4.What would you do if our child had a fever or got hurt while we were at work?

Why they ask

They need proof you'll act sensibly and tell them fast. This is the scenario that keeps parents up at night.

How to answer

  • Mention your current infant and child CPR and first aid certification
  • Say you'd assess, call emergency services first if it's serious, then call them
  • Say you only give medicine they've approved in writing
  • Explain how you'd log times, temperatures and what you did
5.Walk us through a typical day you'd plan for a child this age.

Why they ask

They're testing whether you know what this age actually needs and whether you'll get out of the house instead of parking the kid in front of a screen.

How to answer

  • Anchor the day on naps and meals, since those drive everything else
  • Name specific outings: library story time, a playground, a class
  • Include one quiet activity and one messy one
  • Say how you'd adjust it around their existing routine

Part 2

6.How do you feel about screen time?

Why they ask

Families have strong and very different rules here, and they want a nanny who won't quietly bend them.

How to answer

  • Ask about their rules before giving your view
  • Say you use screens sparingly and on purpose, like a show while you cook dinner
  • Say you'll follow their limits exactly, even when it's harder
7.What household tasks are you comfortable taking on?

Why they ask

They want to know where the line is before it turns into resentment later.

How to answer

  • List the child-related tasks you do as standard: kids' laundry, their meals, tidying toys
  • Be honest about anything outside that, like family cooking or pet care
  • Say you'd rather agree on it upfront and write it into the agreement
8.How would you communicate with us during the day?

Why they ask

Working parents want to feel in the loop without being flooded, and some want very little contact.

How to answer

  • Offer a daily log: meals, naps, diapers, mood, anything unusual
  • Say you'd send a photo or quick update at a set point in the day
  • Say anything urgent gets a call, not a text
  • Ask what they prefer and match it
9.Tell us about a time you disagreed with a parent.

Why they ask

Disagreements will happen. They want to see that you raise things privately and respectfully and then accept their decision.

How to answer

  • Pick a real, low-drama example, like a nap schedule or a food rule
  • Explain how you raised it away from the child
  • Say what the parent decided and how you followed it
  • Say what you learned about that family's style
10.Are you comfortable driving our kids, and what's your driving record like?

Why they ask

School runs and activities often depend on it, and they'll likely check your record anyway.

How to answer

  • Answer directly about your license and record
  • Mention you know how to install and check car seats
  • Say whether you'd use your car or theirs, and ask about insurance and mileage

Part 3

11.Why do you want to be a nanny, and how long are you hoping to stay?

Why they ask

Every change of nanny is hard on a child. They want someone who'll stay through at least a stretch of their kid's early years.

How to answer

  • Give a specific reason you like this work, tied to a real moment with a child
  • Be honest about your plans, including school or a move
  • Say how much notice you'd give if you had to leave

Questions to ask them

Ask at least two. It shows you're picking them too.

  • What does a normal day look like for your child right now, and what would you like to change?
  • How do you handle discipline and screen time at home, so I can stay consistent?
  • What happened with your last nanny or childcare setup, and what did you wish had been different?
  • Will you pay through a payroll service, and how do you handle holidays, sick days and weeks when you travel?
  • How do you like updates during the day, and who should I call first in an emergency?